I’ve collected some recommended books here that inspire me in all kinds of ways—career, business, money, life, and spirit. Everything I’ve listed is well-written, inspiring, and full of real-life depth. They’re also well suited to the sensibilities of introverts and highly sensitive people (HSPs), especially women.
I’ve put them into categories:
- Big Inspiration and Soulful Living
- Introvert Power and Inspiration
- Highly Sensitive People (HSPs)
- Authentic Business/ Self-employment/ Solopreneurs
- Career Clarity
- Work Mindset, Productivity, Creativity
- Leadership
- Speaking and Communication Ease
- Fear, Courage, Confidence
- Callings, Purpose, Inner Compass
- Mindfulness, Inner Peace, Self-compassion
- Feminism, Social Justice, Racial Justice
- Novels that Sensitive and Introverted Women Will Enjoy (another page for this list)
Big Inspiration and Soulful Living
- A Fierce Heart: Finding Strength, Courage, and Wisdom in Any Moment, by Spring Washam
Real life stories and inspiration from a wise bi-racial woman who has faced a tough path and found a path that brings peace and courage. - Sensitive: The Hidden Power of the Highly Sensitive Person in a Loud, Fast, Too-Much World, by Jenn Granneman and Andre Sólo, 2023.
I love this book. It’s affirming of The Sensitive Way and high sensory gifts, and debunks the pervasive Toughness Myth. It shines a light on what’s possible for a better world. A good read for sensitives and anyone. - Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear, by Liz Gilbert
A personal and inspiring look at facing fears and letting your creative juices flow. - God Has a Dream: A Vision of Hope for Our Time, by Desmond Tutu
Inspiration from Nobel Peace Prize winner Desmond Tutu of South Africa, on how he stayed positive through it all. He defines “God” in broad, gender-free, and inclusive terms. - The Gift of Change, by Marianne Williamson
For any change you’re facing. - Man’s Search for Meaning, by Viktor Frankl
A life-affirming classic, by a man who survived a concentration camp during WWII, and founded a new school of thought on finding meaning in life. Includes an interesting take on how the most sensitive seemed to endure best. - The Hidden Life of Trees: What They Feel, How They Communicate, by Peter Wohlleben, 2016.
This one helped me tap into deeper wisdom about the web of life. A favorite of nature fans. - Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds, by adrienne maree brown, 2017.
For when you’re ready for something deep and beyond the typical book.
Introvert Awareness, Power, and Inspiration
- Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, by Susan Cain
An entertaining story-driven, research-based look at introversion and what it means to us personally and what it means to our society. - Quiet Power: The Secrets Strengths of Introverted Kids, by Susan Cain
A simple look at the gifts of being an introvert, which can be a great confidence boost. (Useful for youth and adults.) - Quiet Influence, by Jennifer Kahnweiler
Want to have a say without having to be loud? This popular speaker/trainer outlines how to make it easier, in a short, easy-to-understand book. - The Introverted Leader, by Jennifer Kahnweiler
The assumption that leaders must be extroverted is debunked. Good insights for all leaders and organizations so we can benefit from the gifts that introverts bring. - The 9 Secrets of a Social and Confident Introvert, by Nancy Yang
She encourages and shows you how to use your introvert strengths to grow your network and share your gifts because you have a lot to offer.
Highly Sensitive People (HSPs)
- Sensitive: The Hidden Power of the Highly Sensitive Person in a Loud, Fast, Too-Much World, by Jenn Granneman and Andre Sólo, 2023
- Dodging Energy Vampires: An Empath’s Guide to Avoiding Relationships that Drain You, and Restoring Your Health and Power, by Christiane Northrup
- Joyful, by Ingrid Fetell Lee (not about HSPs, but HSPs will have extra appreciation for this.)
Authentic Business/ Self-employment/ Solopreneurs
- Work That Matters: Create a Livelihood that Reflects Your Core Intention, by Maia Duerr (2018)
- Principles of Authentic Business (for solopreneurs or exploring it) by George Kao, 2019
- Marketing Like We’re Human, by Sarah Santacroce
- The Nature of Business: Redesign for Resilience, by Giles Hutchins
Applying the principles of biomimicry to the development of a new business paradigm. - Pivot: The Only Move That Matters Is Your Next One, by Jenny Blake
Especially relevant for those wondering about leaving a corporate job. - Turning Pro, by Steven Pressfield
A short well-written book that inspires you to take your purpose seriously and how to conquer the inevitable resistance to going for it.
Career Clarity
- Designing Your Work Life: How To Thrive and Change and Find Happiness at Work (2020)
Concrete and wise career search and job search tips. - Work That Matters: Create a Livelihood that Reflects Your Core Intention, by Maia Duerr (2018)
- Becoming, by Michelle Obama
Her beautifully written memoir is a great inside look at finding one’s purpose and career path, amidst relatable whirlwinds of life. - Sensitive: The Hidden Power of the Highly Sensitive Person in a Loud, Fast, Too-Much World, by Jenn Granneman and Andre Solo, 2023
Much of the book is dedicated to understanding the strengths of sensitive people and how to make good use of them. There’s even a good section (inside Chapter 8) on the art of crafting your current work into something that works better for you. (My review of Sensitive is here.) - Renaissance Soul…when you have too many passions to pick just one, by Margaret Lobenstine.
I attended a workshop with the author that I found so useful, and then she put the workshop into a book.
Work Mindset, Productivity, and Creativity
- Quiet Is a Superpower: The Secret Strengths of Introverts in the Workplace, by Jill Chang.
- Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less, by Greg McKeown
- Deep Work, by Cal Newport, 2016
- Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, by Carol Dweck
- The Practice of Groundedness: A Transformative Path to Success that Feeds, not Crushes, Your Soul, by Brad Stulberg
- Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals, by Oliver Burkeman
On why “keeping up” is hopeless, and what to do instead. - Successful Women Think Differently, by Valorie Burton (useful principles for anyone, and she brings in her spiritual and Christian perspective too.)
Money Issues
- The Law of Divine Compensation, by Marianne Williamson
- It’s Not Your Money, by Tosha Silver
I find this freeing and hopeful. It’s about unhooking yourself from money as something to get, but something that moves through you for the greater good. - Overcome Underearning, by Barbara Stanny
- Sacred Success: A Course in Financial Miracles, by Barbara Stanny
- Everything Is Figureoutable, by Marie Forleo
Good for all kinds of fears and maybe especially about career and business worries. - The Big Leap: Conquer your hidden fear and take life to the next level, by Gay Hendricks
Leadership
- Co-Active Leadership: 5 Ways to Lead
– A short fun read painting a doable collaborative style of leadership. - Dare to Lead: Brave Work, Tough Conversations, Whole Hearts, by Brene Brown
– How to build the courage muscles needed for real leadership, from the heart, from a leading researcher and consultant on courage and vulnerability. - The Introverted Leader, by Jennifer Kahnweiler
– The assumption that leaders must be extroverted is debunked. Good insights for all leaders and organizations so we can benefit from the gifts that introverts bring. A short easy read that will boost your confidence. - Creating Introvert-Friendly Workplaces, by Jennifer Kahnweiler
- Stumbling Towards Inclusion: Finding Grace in Imperfect Leadership, by Priya Nalkur.
- The Anti-Racist Organization, by Shereen Daniels, HR strategist.
- Sensitive: The Hidden Power of the Highly Sensitive Person in a Loud, Fast, Too-Much World, by Jenn Granneman and Andre Solo, 2023
– The description of sensitive strengths is powerful, and the last chapter on using those for leadership is quite good.
Speaking and Communication Ease
- Speak without Fear: A Total System for Becoming a Natural, Calm Communicator
- Non-violent Communication, by Marshall Rosenberg
- How to Talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere: The Secrets of Good Communication, by Larry King
- Successful Women Speak Differently, by Valorie Burton
Fear, Courage, Confidence
And Still I Rise: A Book of Poems, by Maya Angelou- Daring Greatly, by Brene Brown
- Positive Intelligence, by Shirzad Chamine
- Embracing Uncertainty, by Susan Jeffers
- Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, by Susan Jeffers
- The Secrets Thoughts of Successful Women: Why Capable People Suffer from the Impostor Syndrome and How to Thrive in Spite of It, by Valerie Young
- Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear, by Liz Gilbert
- Everything Is Figureoutable, by Marie Forleo
- Turning Pro, by Steven Pressfield
How to conquer the inevitable resistance to seriously going for your dream.
Callings, Purpose, Inner Compass
- Follow Your North Star, by Martha Beck
– a short audio similar to her books. I enjoyed hearing her very genuine voice. - Callings, by Gregg Levoy
– a deep look at what are callings, how to hear them, and what to do with them. - Trust Within, by Molly Carroll
– an enjoyable story-driven read about intuition and how to tap it. - The Alchemist, by Paulo Coelho
– An inspiring fable about how to hear your heart’s callings and live into your true path.
Mindfulness, Inner Peace, Self-compassion
- True Refuge: Finding Peace and Freedom in Your Own Awakened Heart, by Tara Brach
- Hardwiring Happiness: The New Brain Science of Contentment, Calm and Confidence, by Rick Hanson
- The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook: A Proven Way to Accept Yourself, Build Inner Strength and Thrive, by Kristin Neff (2018)
Women, Feminism, Social Justice, Racial Justice
- A Fierce Heart: Finding Strength, Courage, and Wisdom in Any Moment, by Spring Washam
- Getting in Touch with Your Inner Bitch
Playful yet insightful comics for when you’re tired of apologizing for taking up space. This saved me from toxic niceness. - Men Explain Things to Me, by Rebecca Solnit, 2016
- Ain’t I a Woman?: Black Women and Feminism, by Bell Hooks
- Mindful of Race, by Ruth King
- How To Be an AntiRacist, by Ibram X Kendi (Dr. Kendi is a dedicated researcher and writer, who is an introvert, which seems to be part of his superpower.)
- Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents, by Isabel Wilkerson, 2020.
- How the Word Is Passed, by Clint Smith, 2021. (One of my favorite books ever. Such a beautiful thought-provoking read.)
- In Our Shoes: On Being a Young Black Woman in Not-so-“post-racial” America, by Brianna Holt, 2023. I love this book, and her personal stories of being an introverted Black women in school and the workplace. As a journalist, she has a powerful way with words that captures what can be so hard to put into words.
