The Dread of Putting Myself Out There (and a Better Way)
Just that phrase, put myself out there, can cause a cringe, especially for introverts and HSPs. Worse yet, it comes with the worry that it will block your success. Here’s some fast relief.
Just that phrase, put myself out there, can cause a cringe, especially for introverts and HSPs. Worse yet, it comes with the worry that it will block your success. Here’s some fast relief.
People often ask me, “How long does it take to grow a coaching (or related service) business?” I bet you know my answer. It depends. 🤨 Here’s an outline of what it depends on, which gives you clues to making it work sooner than later.
My recent travel experience was hard on my nervous system. I had to relearn some self-care lessons as an introvert and highly sensitive person. Here are some ups and downs on the trip, and lessons learned.
Overthinking accusations might reveal bias against deep thinkers like introverts and HSPs. Deep thinking vs overthinking, and how to stick with useful thinking.
New career or business ideas are exciting, so part of you wants to share them, and another part might be nervous to share. It’s not just the introverted part of you that’s nervous. It’s also wisdom to slow down here. These are tender sprouts that deserve time and space. I’ve seen sharing turn into stuckness.
I’ve got cautions and tips for who, when, how to share.
Consider NOT looking for a new way to grow your business. You don’t just need a new trick. Instead, study your own bright spots for what works and what you enjoy, and double down on that. I’ve got examples, some ways to apply the concept in your case, and answers to those doubts.
This concept is especially important for the people I work with — introverts and highly sensitive people (HSPs), like myself — because the most typical marketing advice is not made for how we naturally do things.
January has its own kind of energy. All at the same time, it can have a sense of inspiration for possibilities, a sense of pressure to change.it.all.now, plus there’s the natural part of us that just wants to hibernate. Sounding familiar? I’ve got some gentle ways to smooth the way for sensitive souls.
If you’ve been trying to make career decisions or navigate life as a highly sensitive person (HSP) or introvert, it can kick up thoughts like “I just don’t fit anywhere.” That’s why finding an HSP support group or introvert support group — especially one with a steady leader who gets it firsthand — can be such a relief and smooth the way for your progress.
I know because that’s how it has worked for me, and for the people in the groups I lead. I have wonderful people in my life, but when I’m around my sensitive soul people, it fills a particular need in my core. I know it’s a critical piece of why I’m as fulfilled and at ease as a sensitive soul.
In this post, I’ve got success stories, ways an Introvert or HSP group is different, and some possible groups to check out. Including groups for solo entrepreneurs or those considering that path.
The start-stop cycle on new career or new business goals is common. It doesn’t mean you’re bad at it. Learn an easy way to get your momentum.
7 short and sweet tips for how I make the winter holiday time work for me as an introvert and HSP.
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It might not feel like it right now, but work can be energizing and fulfilling, even for introverts and HSPs. There is a way. Here are 3 paths to find your way to your right career path.
Self-employment guidance especially for introverts and HSPs. So you can have the sustainable, meaningful, and calm life you crave. Different forms of support to consider.
Does it seem like everyone else has it figured out? Let me light the way for your exploration around career, life purpose, or self-employment.
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