…for Introverted Women with Big Hearts
Are you aching to bring your full potential to the world, but worried about money decisions, the personal exposure, or how you’ll find time to breathe?
Head spin? Feeling alone with it all?
You can feel the tension in your body, I bet. Tense shoulders, tight chest, pit in your stomach…? Your body is telling you something needs to shift. (Maybe your spouse is telling you too.)
That’s a good time to talk to someone calm and experienced, who can see the path even when you’re stuck in the fog. If you’re like me, you also want to talk to someone who understands your big heart and your quiet-loving soulful nature.
I can help you make the right decisions for you, from a calm place, before you waste time, energy, and money on the wrong path that you think you’re supposed to do.
Oh I’ve seen people going in circles but it’s not necessary! I went through that myself and I’m determined it won’t be that hard for others. That’s why I’m 100% in for helping my clients. When you’re 100% in with me, it’s amazing the magic that can happen.
I help heart-centered women create the sustainable, fulfilling, and relaxing life they really want. That’s what I call the SOULpreneur journey. I’ll let some of my clients help explain:
Hiring Val as my coach brought me so much more than I expected. I hired Val to help me get a business off the ground to realize (with her help) it wasn’t the right business for me. She helped me follow my heart to find what feels right – not what I “think” is right. My business is doing great and I continue to work with Val! Don’t hesitate in hiring her – it’s so worth any investment!” ~ Cindy S.
I’ve known inside for a very long time that I wanted to be an entrepreneur, but you really helped me to shed those layers of fear & discouragement. I sometimes can’t believe how confident & proud I am feeling these days and I am so elated when I realize it is not all a dream. Thank you!”
~Amber Ladley, creative entrepreneur
Being a solopreneur can be incredibly isolating and a good bit overwhelming at times. I was also planning a wedding while trying to grow my health & lifestyle coaching practice after a relocation from NYC. Working with Val helped me stay focused, grow, and move forward sustainably. I’m projecting at least a 200% growth in revenue this year and feeling ease accomplishing that, instead of gross about marketing.
~Kara Snyder, vital corps
My Approach and Specialty
I specialize in helping introverted SOULpreneur women with all kinds of work and life concerns.
I am NOT about changing introverts into extroverts or “fixing” anything about them. I’m also not about business growth at any expense. I’m about helping you align with your golden sweet spot.
I help people work in alignment with who they are, including their unique strengths that feel like natural flow. That’s where the gold is!
Turns out, it’s a very practical thing to listen to your heart and your energy because your business won’t work without it.
It IS possible to feel relaxed at work and after work. Yes, you can even relax with the marketing stuff and the money stuff too… IF your work and your marketing methods are aligned with your heart and your nature.
When you work with me, you’ll find the much-needed space and energy to realign your work so you can be in the flow.
There seems to be a bit of magic to what you do. I try to explain it, but I can’t quite capture it when telling others. I know that this decision to leave my job, and the transition into this next phase has gone so much more smoothly than it would have otherwise. I am more confident moving forward, more aware of my abilities and what I have to offer. I’m staying brave even when fear kicks up.”
~ Lauren, Western Mass. (budding entrepreneur)
Let’s get you some stress relief sooner than later:
Request a free Stress Relief Call here.
For today, if you’re feeling stuck in the wrong work or an uphill path, see if you can let in a tiny bit of hope that it could be different. Or, at least, remember to breathe.
My clients enjoy these kinds of outcomes
I have successfully helped women with all of these common needs, whether they’re at the beginning phase or beyond:
- Defining your heartfelt business vision that energizes you and soothes your soul.
- Clarifying a niche that helps your business thrive, and makes your heart sing.
- Deciding whether and how to take the self-employment leap.
- Charging what you and your audience can feel great about (the dreaded pricing questions!).
- Finding ease and success with client attraction.
- Finding your confident voice to prevent those awful tongue-tied moments.
- Developing authentic (non-icky) wording about your work.
- Making good decisions about when and where to invest. (By the way, a website is NOT the first step.)
- Preventing (or recovering from) burnout, and finding a sustainable work/life harmony.
- Managing change.
- Making friends with the business side of business.
- Deciding when and how to hire help.
- Needing a thinking partner along the way.
There’s a lot of moving parts to consider if you’re going to have a successful and enjoyable business. Don’t let the overwhelm make you think something is wrong with you or your ideas. It just means it’s time to let in an outside perspective and get realigned.
I’m so happy that I called you. Things don’t feel so hopeless anymore. Other things feel more manageable. My husband said he’s noticed a big difference in me since we started working together and is glad that I’m devoting the time and money to this.”
K, Western MA (after only 5 sessions)
Is It the Right Time for a Business Coach?
Don’t think you have to have it all together before calling to discuss your business with a coach. In fact, having spinning thoughts is a good time to call. I’ll help you sort it out and find some breathing room.
Maybe you think you should just take another webinar or read another book or push yourself harder. But those are not enough for anyone to get a business and work/life balance into shape.
All successful businesses have support in the background. It takes more than ideas, cheerleading friends, and New Year’s resolutions. It’s not your lack of willpower or something broken in you.
The key to successfully making meaningful change is to have the right support to clarify your goals and strategies, and make steady progress on it. It works. Don’t keep waiting for the fear to magically go away. (Psst, fear doesn’t go away.)
Coaching is a proven method for getting unstuck and living your full potential, despite the fear. That’s why business coaching is growing in popularity.
Val has a way of creating a comfortable space, and at the same time, really taking you to the limit to unleash your fullest potential. Working with Val is playful, exciting and very productive. After our coaching sessions, I always feel invigorated…and the thing is…it’s not the kind of electricity that fades…. I have found ways to unleash what’s already inside me to be much more productive and creative with her help. I always look forward to our sessions and meetings and I’m so glad I started consulting with Val!!! You really must experience what I’m talking about to truly understand..!! Thanks Val, you are a God-send!! ~D.O., New Haven, CT
Do You Need a Business Coach or Business Consultant?
These terms are sometimes confused. I combine coaching and consulting and find it is an excellent combination to get you moving forward fast.
Often people think they need expert advice (such as provided by a consultant), but all the practical advice in the world doesn’t help if you’re trapped in swirling thoughts, limiting beliefs, burnout, or a heartache from ignoring your heart. Coaching is a great way to get those blocks out of the way.
Then, with internal barriers addressed, I can help you make practical and heart-aligned decisions and take concrete steps in a productive order. In other words, I bring both coaching and consulting, as needed. We combine head and heart wisdom for the highest good.
People tell me they appreciate my balanced approach to keeping both the heart and the practical stuff on the table, in a way that feels soothing and doable. One client told me her practical-minded husband could finally relax when she showed him what we were working on.
The most important thing about choosing a coach is that it should feel like a good fit. We can figure that out when we talk, but here’s a little background about me and my focus.
I specialize in helping introverted women who want to bring something meaningful to the world, and they often don’t relate to the typical cookie-cutter business tips, which happen to be geared mainly for extroverted men. I help both those who are already self-employed, and those considering it.
Before completing professional coach training and starting my private practice, I gained valuable skills and experience in business management, marketing and communications, human services, education, and human resources.
One of my superpowers is to help people clarify and activate their unique superpowers so they can find their sweet spot for success. I can see the genius in you… even when you can’t.
Since working with Val my goals have become clearer and my action steps more focused. My business has feet now, in a very short time I can see immense possibilities where there were only questions. She keeps the focus, holds the keys of relevance, nourishes the psyche and instills the spirit with a sense of willingness, no, passion for the next step. And if the next step isn’t clear, she will change that!
~Pam White, Artist/Photographer, CT
Is It for Me?
My coaching services are perfect for you if all these are true:
- You want to enjoy a fulfilling sustainable self-employment experience. You may already have that sometimes, but you want to keep it strong and growing… and with breathing room.
- Your business or business ideas revolve around providing a heart-centered service.
- Your primary focus is close to your heart, or you want it to be even more. (That’s the SOULpreneur way.)
- You want to include a sense of intuition, spirit, heart, or internal alignment in your work life.
- You want to do business in a way that is ethical and socially responsible.
- You sometimes feel reluctant or tongue-tied about the business and marketing side (e.g., what to charge, marketing plans, choosing a niche).
- You want to make noticeable progress in a smart way without reinventing the wheel.
- You relate to being introverted or somewhere in the middle between introvert and extrovert (“ambivert”).
If you’re an introverted woman who is following your calling or passions, or want to do so, you’re right up my alley!
I don’t coach people who “just need money,” or who want a quick fix, or who don’t care about having meaning at work. I get that we all need money, and we’ll solve that, but if that’s your prime motivator, I don’t believe your business will be sustainable over time, and it’s not what I’m about.
Coaching as an Investment That Pays Off
Val’s coaching has more than paid for itself. Her encouragement to believe in my own worth, to charge appropriately for my services and not to undercut myself when negotiating contracts has been invaluable.
~G, Northampton, MA
After an initial session to try things on, most people sign up for a month-to-month coaching engagement so we can make meaningful sustained progress. Three months is a typical minimum, but many people stay as long as it feels right to them, so they can reach higher and higher goals. It’s always up to you.
I don’t charge by the hour so you know I’m always on your team and we don’t have to worry about counting minutes if you contact me between sessions.
Consider the return on investment if your client attraction starts to flow, and that’s just the financial side. Often, getting one new steady client can pay for coaching.
Think beyond money. How much is it worth to you to go from frazzled and drained to fulfilled and energized? Please don’t wait for the heart attack.
I’ve seen my clients notice a difference faster than they expected. Small changes can make a huge difference. You’ll feel better fairly quickly, then we start moving ahead with more ease.
It’s not a quick fix for money worries because true change isn’t overnight. You might need to deal with immediate income needs before dealing with the bigger stuff. We can talk through both the short-term and long-term needs.
Here are some scenarios where change did happen quickly because they were so ready:
One client was feeling stuck about publishing a new website, but she got past her worries after one session, launched a site she felt good about, and we made sure it could be found in Google by her ideal clients, and she started booking twice as many clients after only three sessions. She was booked up with her ideal clients after another three months. She’s doing more of the work she loves and feeling fulfilled on many levels.
Another client went from intense social anxiety in business meetings to feeling noticeably more calm and confident after only 3 sessions with me.
That kind of shift can happen for you too, if you’re hungry for a change, and ready to try things differently.
Don’t let concerns about price stop you from calling. Being in business means you have to invest something, strategically. Especially in the beginning. That’s the nature of it.
Next Step: Let’s See If There’s a Match
Check out this quick quiz to get the ball rolling:
Quiz: Will You Benefit from Val’s Coaching?
Then, let’s get you some stress relief in a free initial consult. We can discuss both individual and group coaching options.
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