Losing Your Job: From Gut Punch to Recovery
I’ll explain my own gut-punch experience, what it actually means when you are let go, plus a simple exercise to help you get past losing your job. (Audio or text.)
Courage and Fear Busting
The Worry About Being Seen as Too “Woo Woo”
The fear of being seen as too woo woo can get in the way of hearing your callings and going for something alternative. You can be grounded and outside the box. Here’s my take on the real problem.
Do You Confuse Extroversion with Confidence?
Many introverts think they just need to act more extroverted, when they really just want to be more confident. Here’s how to be confident as an introvert. No extrovert mask required.
Quiet People Have a Lot To Say
Tips for people who are quiet and those around them. Pausing and listening are important skills for inclusion – of introverts, women, BIPOC, and everyone. When all voices are heard, the best decisions are made.
Self-employment Myths and Reality. It’s OK To Be Wobbly.
It’s not as hard as you think. And it’s harder than you think. Here’s a realistic look at the inside of self-employment, and some inspiration. This includes some of my own story. More people can handle it than they think. Introverts too. Imperfection allowed.
RBG – A Confident Introvert Facing the Fire: What It Takes
I love finding role models for introverts who care so much and find a way to make a huge difference in their own quiet way. Like Ruth Bader Ginsburg (RBG). There’s more to the story than you know.
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What If You Don’t Know What You Want?
Not knowing is actually quite common. Finding out is doable! A little clarity of direction can help you find good work more easily.
The Introvert’s Easy Path To Going For It… Without Getting Overwhelmed
How to prevent yourself from feeling overwhelmed at work or with career goals, etc. This video will give you a shift in thinking that brings relief now.
How Do I Cope with Conflict and Speaking Up at Meetings as an Introvert?
Ack, conflict. Tough for most of us. And at work with all that pressure? Or in a community group where you care so much but then we can’t get along? Tips for Introverts on how to make it easier.
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How Do Solopreneurs Deal with Sick Time? No Paid Time Off (PTO)?
Some people think being a solopreneur means it’s all on your shoulders and that time off is a problem. Here’s how it CAN work to have time, and how I handle it.
Are You Rushing Around Like a Squirrel? (The Autumn Rush)
This seems to be the start of many conversations I’m having as Fall approaches…
The Introvert’s Path from Struggle to Confidence
First of all, you can be a confident introvert. But many introverts have concerns about confidence and I’ll explain why and what to do about it.
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Why You Get Tongue-Tied About Your Business and What To Do
There’s so much stress over the words related to our work. Self-employed introverts are especially prone to word worries. Here’s what to do.
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I Opened My Heart and Found Strength, Not Weakness
I learned an important lesson about the heart when I went to my father’s funeral many years ago. The day he died, a friend came over and took me for a walk in the February chill and listened to my worries.
You Are Closer Than You Think
Many people who come to me for career, business, or life guidance feel completely lost at sea in a fog, only to discover they were only a mile from shore.
When Something Feels Too Big for You, What To Do. (Facing Challenges)
If you find yourself leaning back when it comes to a challenge, this personal story and explanation about fear and courage might help.
Top 10 TED Talks for Rethinking and Inspiring Your Work
Some good TED talks for sparking fresh ideas for your career, business, and purpose.
Tackling My Fears, One Layer at a Time
I want to share some lessons about fear and then I realized I’m dealing with some fears right now. Gettin’ personal. Tackling my fears one at a time.
My Story From Wallflower to Enjoying Networking
Some people know me as that woman who leads networking workshops especially for introverts and anyone struggling with networking. It’s true, I’ve often led a workshop called Networking Secrets from an Ex-Wallflower™.
Feeling Stuck in a Transition? Your Treasure Is Already Here.
Inspiring song for when you’re stuck or losing hope, such as w/ a career transition or starting a business – wondering if it will ever get here.
