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Alternative Careers for Teachers (What else can I do?)
Considering leaving the classroom? Get realistic second career ideas from a former teacher turned career coach for teachers. Teaching can be hard on some introverts.
Your definition of “fun” might be different, as an Introvert or HSP.
Extrovert-dominant cultures have defined fun too narrowly, as if only the loud things count as fun. Introverts and HSPs can have a different definition of fun. Your permission slip.
Inspirational Stories of Introverts and HSPs 🌟 Success on Their Own Terms
Includes career profiles of introverts and HSPs like you, and famous introverts who made a huge impact. Role models of balancing meaning, money, and energy needs.
The Calm and Authentic Guide to Business Networking Groups – for Introverts and HSPs
Small business communities/ networking groups can offer kindred spirit connection (if it’s a good match), and can be an important source of referrals and ideas. 15 simple things to do, to make good use of your membership, without getting overwhelmed.
Relief from Overthinking in Business by Trusting My Instincts More
I’ll tell you exactly how I’ve been tuning in to my instincts even more and what’s happening. It’s simpler than it might seem, but the results are big: more calm, more effectiveness.
Coping with Uncertainty in Business and Life > What Helps Me.
My recent shake-up story and how I found my footing again. I wrote up 7 ways that help me cope with uncertainty in business and life (including climate chaos). + Coping mantras.
Sensitive, the book, and what is high sensitivity anyway?
My review of the 2023 book, Sensitive, and what happened at a book discussion with other HSPs. I also define high sensitivity here. It’s so misunderstood.
Work Should Be Fun. I’m Serious.
Many have equated work with drudgery but work should be fun because fun means you’re on the right career path. Work CAN be fun. What I mean, and how…
Customized Career or Business Ideas for Introverts and HSPs
The ultimate list of good careers for HSPs and introverts — PLUS how to access a list of custom career or business ideas for YOU.
I took it as a sign. It’s time to open the door, despite worries.
Signs in nature today are reminding me it’s OK to release those shoulders, open up now. It helps when there are kindred spirits who help to make the path easier, just like geese flying in a V. Plus, a new group program to help you start a business, along with kindred spirit magic.
“Do I Have to Hustle to Be Successful in Business?” (There’s a calm way for business.)
You hear about side hustles or that you have to hustle to make it as an entrepreneur. It can be a turn off for introverts and HSPs. Hustle is NOT required. Here’s why the hustle idea is harmful, and what works better.
I explain my black swan logo as a symbol of a hustle-free better way.
Relaxed Courage Appeared Like Magic, Thanks to Being in Community.
While at a women’s circle retreat, I discovered things about the power of community – what a spark for my courage, clearer thinking, and Joy! Like the magic of clicking into gear. So good. I explain what happened, and how you can find your own empowering circle.
I couldn’t see the easier path right next to me. (This is so common.)
Missing the easier path reminded me of how we keep using a stressful path in our career and business. The easier way is often right there.
Perfectionism Cure + Why Introverts and HSPs are more prone to perfectionism.
Perfectionism is not a permanent trait. We can break free. Some facts and stories here. Plus: why introverts and highly sensitive people (HSPs) are more prone to perfectionism. My own recovering perfectionist story.
How do I find energy for career exploration when I’m so exhausted by work/life already?
When work or life are already draining, it’s hard to find energy to work towards a career change such as considering self-employment. Here’s how real introverts and HSPs are making it work.
Great Resignation… and Then What Happened? (Inside Stories of their Great Relief)
Millions have quit their jobs without knowing what was next. Have they found happiness? Did they get stuck? I’ve gathered some stories here.
New Year’s resolutions can block your career goals. 🤨
The problem with new year’s resolutions for your career (and life). Sometimes they actually get in the way, make you feel pushed, or hopeless. It ends up being draining, and your goals don’t pan out. I wrote up my thoughts about what what I find works better and gives you more energy.
Why it’s hard to find the right career direction for you. > How to make it easier.
Why it’s hard and confusing, like a tangled web. (It’s not you!) Here are 3 lists that help, including the 4 typical roadblocks for finding the right career, and the 4 ways people get around those roadblocks. I also address cost issues for getting help.
Gratitude 🙏 Grief 🍁 Joy – How They Can All Go Together. ∞
Gratitude and grief often come together, and it can lead to more joy when we let it all in. And that leads to an abundance of giving. Plus, how to find your way of sharing your gifts.
Famous Introvert Story: Rachel Carson, Ecologist, and How Her Introversion Saved the Day.
The “mother of the modern environmentalist movement,” Rachel Carson, was an introvert. I believe it was her introverted personality that made it possible for her to spark a movement. I find her story fascinating. I’m excited to share it with you.
