So many people don’t know the right direction for their work in the world, for their career or business. Not to mention confusion around how it fits in with what’s actually needed for the Greater Good.
I love that some people are asking the question about truly serving in a meaningful way. Yet I know they worry about how to do good work without overwhelm, or whether they can actually find or create meaningful work that can also meet their needs for income and rest.
I have found ways that work, for me, and the way I came to it seems to also work for others, even in many different circumstances. We are finding ways to serve the Greater Good in our work, without overwhelm. I’ll explain. Continue reading
I was interviewed last month about my work. It was a fun conversation. You can watch our intimate conversation here.
We got into a lot of deep topics about making career choices, how self-employment can work for caring introverts, how I deal with some of my challenges, as well as things I’m really passionate about.
I’m amazed at how much of my interests and philosophy we were able to cover.
Topics we covered:
- Why people can’t see their own strengths and why knowing them is a key to making your work much easier.
- How introversion is a strength (more than you know).
- How introverts are naturally good at business and marketing.
- The problem with thinking work has to be hard, when it can and should be joyful.
- How to price your heart-centered services and deal with the inner conflicts about that. (Finding the sweet spot of fair exchange.)
- Introvert-friendly ways to attract clients.
- How “going it alone” is a path to burnout and how introverts and solopreneurs find their way of co-creating, including how I co-create.
- My framework for how to clarity and activate the “best use of you” even in this time of great uncertainty.
- My courses, including my new career clarity course.
- Perfection, the connection to introversion, my struggle with it, and how I get around it and get things done.
- How I use my strength of empathy for my marketing.
- My passion for anti-racism, inclusion, social justice.
- Where to find me online.
I hope you enjoy it.
I’d love to hear your reactions to some of what I said. Anything surprising in there? You can comment on my facebook post that has this interview. Or comment below if you prefer.
P.S. By the way, when I talked about co-creation, even for introverts, I don’t mean we need to work in teams. Solo focus time is still really important!! I just mean there are ways to not have to do everything alone. We need others for things like referrals and connections, help with technology, and doing the things you don’t like doing, and for getting useful feedback.
Too many people live with this question and don’t know how to answer it.
I notice people tend to think one or both of these methods will work for discovering your right career path:
- That it will just come in a flash and then you’re all set for life, you know, like it did for so-and-so (supposedly).
- That you can do a few exercises in a book or take a quiz online to find the one right path.
Sadly, those thoughts are often accompanied with, “Since those things didn’t work for me, I must be broken.”
I have heard something like that so many times and it hurts my heart. Luckily I can reassure them right away, those paths don’t work for most people. You’re not broken, and there is a way to find your path.
I don’t think either of those expected ways is enough for something like deep clarity and choosing your own specific steps on where you want to go in life. You wouldn’t be here on this page if you could have figured it out on your own by now.
Figuring out why you’re here and how to make it work is big stuff! And yet, the steps to uncover that are simple, just not commonly known.
I’m sure you’ve noticed that things got shaken up quite a bit so far in 2020. That’s an understatement.
So much shake-up that our work decisions need a fresh look. What will be in demand now and in the future will be different in some ways. Some things will remain, some things will rise strongly, and some things will drastically change or go away.
As a result, I decided it’s time to update my career and self-employment ideas for you, to account for this twist in the road.
You can listen to or read this post (about 6 minutes):
I used to think I had too many interests to find a career that would fit. This problem of “too many ideas” happens to me now too whenever I have too many ideas for my business. Big head spin. I even had that today.
On the one hand, ideas can be energizing. I love ideas.
But when it comes to choosing a career path or a path for your business, it can feel like a swirl of question marks that has at times left me feeling stuck, hopeless, or sometimes just exhausted waiting for clarity to come.
However, now I see that the concept of “too many interests” is out of an old playbook that says I have to choose one narrow direction for life, and that’s that. But life and work are more complex and interesting than that. Right?
I do think some people might have more broad ranging interests than others, and they are perhaps lovers of Ideas Ideas Ideas, or what some call a “Renaissance Soul”. I’m raising my hand on that one. (By the way, being an idea-generating person is actually a unique talent, and it’s a marketable skill that could be a clue for your path.)
Over time, with seeing the inside stories as a career and business coach, I now think we all have multiple interests. Don’t you? Maybe your interests don’t all seem relevant to your career or business, at first, but you do have multiple interests, I bet.
I’ll explain one simple method for choosing a path that incorporates multiple interests. Continue reading