When I Told Myself I Just Need To Be Tougher. (Courage > Burnout)
I used to think I just needed to be more tough, push harder. Pushing myself a bit helped me grow courage, but then it also led to burnout. But then…
9 Introvert Facts to Dispel Common Myths
There is still so much misunderstanding about introversion, like the anti-social stereotype in this image. Here are some facts about introverts. Let’s dispel those common myths about introverts.
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Connection That Works For Introverts and HSPs. (We Need Connection Too.)
Introverts and HSPs need people connection too, but we need to find the right balance. Here’s a guide for dealing with our classic barriers and concerns. We can have connection *our* way.
Introvert/HSP Re-entry Dread? Re-considering Work and Socializing Post-pandemic.
How I and other introverts and HSPs are planning and managing around post-pandemic changes. The dread of socializing and back-to-work is leading to creative solutions.
Honoring Your Perseverance
This pandemic start anniversary is a good moment to pause, to honor your perseverance, to see where you are now, and to look forward with fresh and wiser eyes.
Too Old to Change Careers, Find Work, or Start a Business? The Worry and the Reality.
“I’m too old to make a change”, “I’m too young for that…”, “They’ll see me as too old” and more. I hear it so often. Here’s some reality and solutions.
I”™ll explain what I”™ve discovered, what helped me resolve this age worry at midlife, and what to do with the reality of when no one will hire you. Plus some tips for choosing a better career path at any age.
My Story from Shy Girl to Confident Self-employed Introvert and HSP
My story of how I ended up where I am today, making self-employment work by doing what aligns with my being introverted and highly sensitive, and my wanting to make a difference.
The In-Between Time in Your Career: 3 Things That Got Me Through It.
When I was hungry for career change before I could see the next door open, it was very uncomfortable. Here are 3 key things that made the difference in my transition, towards self-employment in my case.
Oh, These Poignant Holidays… and Now This Too.
I find the holidays are more complicated and exhausting this year. It’s humbling. Here’s a dose of compassion for all of us.
I’m Ignoring the “Shoulds” Today – It’s So Freeing. And More Productive.
I just caught myself before doing a networking thing on my calendar that was actually just a “should” and not a true choice. Good lesson learned by ignoring the “should” and doing what I wanted.
