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Introvert Survival Tips for Managing Tough Conversations
Tips for introverts on how to handle delicate conversations, especially at work. From my advice column about handling a chatty coworker.

Self-employment Myths and Reality. It’s OK To Be Wobbly.
It’s not as hard as you think. And it’s harder than you think. Here’s a realistic look at the inside of self-employment, and some inspiration. This includes some of my own story. More people can handle it than they think. Introverts too. Imperfection allowed.

RBG – A Confident Introvert Facing the Fire: What It Takes
I love finding role models for introverts who care so much and find a way to make a huge difference in their own quiet way. Like Ruth Bader Ginsburg (RBG). There’s more to the story than you know.
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Introverts Can Really Get Talking, If…
If you think introverts have nothing to say, think again. Here are times we do get to talking more. We’re selective.
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What If You Don’t Know What You Want?
Not knowing is actually quite common. Finding out is doable! A little clarity of direction can help you find good work more easily.

Best Careers for Introverts, HSPs, Sensitive People: 70+ Jobs with Less Stress
Introverts, highly sensitive people (HSPs), and other sensitive souls can thrive in the right careers, jobs and work environments. Here’s what we need, plus a list of ideas for best careers for introverts and HSPs. There’s hope.
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What If Your Career Ideas Feel Impossible?
This is a common question. My answer is that you don’t even know what’s realistic or not until you explore some more. I have the kind of brain that thinks there is always a way to do something you love. Even if you don’t think like that, stay with me for a moment.
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My 15 Favorite Books for Caring Introverted Women
Like many introverts, I love books and sharing my book recommendations. Here are some books that I think other introverts will enjoy – especially heart-centered women. Everything from career and business and soulful inspiration, to novels with introverted women as main characters you’ll love.

If you’re tired of hearing “Why are you so quiet?”
If you’re an introvert or a highly sensitive person, you’ve probably heard this question a zillion times. Let’s talk about some ways to respond with a good comeback. But first, there’s nothing wrong with quiet!

Should I Let Intuition Run My Life? My Business?
Intuition has played a key role in my business decisions. I’m exploring how much intuitive decision making can be done in practical safe ways. Self-trust takes practice, and it’s worth cultivating. It can be so magical too. I share some magical stories here.

My Social Media Sabbatical: Nourishing My Mind, Body, and Soul.
I wrote this at the outset of a social media break and described all the amazing surprising benefits from that time off. Later I added the outcome.

The Introvert’s Easy Path To Going For It… Without Getting Overwhelmed
How to prevent yourself from feeling overwhelmed at work or with career goals, etc. This video will give you a shift in thinking that brings relief now.

Introverts Often Hate Meetings. > Meeting Survival Tips for Introverts
Why meetings are hard for introverts, how to make introvert-friendly meetings, and a few tips to survive the not-so-fun meetings. (This is a classic concern for introverts. It’s not you. It’s bad meetings.)

4 Tips for How Introverts Can Have More Ease in Online Discussions
Real-life question and answer on dealing with required online discussions at work that felt so awkward for this introvert. Includes: introverts strengths for online discussions, 4 key tips to make online interactions easier.
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A Journey from SOLOpreneur 😕 to SOULpreneur 🥰
Solopreneur describes a one-person business, but that word can feel lonely and cold, and make you feel drained. SOULpreneur moves you into a better gear. Defined here.

How Do I Cope with Conflict and Speaking Up at Meetings as an Introvert?
Ack, conflict. Tough for most of us. And at work with all that pressure? Or in a community group where you care so much but then we can’t get along? Tips for Introverts on how to make it easier.

Empathy Overwhelm? Finding Words and Answers Amidst Darkness
Something in the news hit me hard. This is my support note to myself and to you. This is what grief feels like. Maybe it’s also empathy overwhelm. I offer some explanations and support for sensitive souls with high empathy.

Meet SOULpreneur Diana Chaplin
We need role models for a heart-centered self-employment journey. Here’s a profile of Diana, a content strategist and copywriter. More profiles to come.
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The Joy of Silence… Even If It Makes You Squirm At First
I went on a 5-day silent retreat, which I was originally nervous to do. It was so restorative and had many lessons. My story…
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Your Intuition Is Better Than You Think – Even for Marketing
It’s so easy to fall into the trap of letting the business and marketing gurus tell you what to do, when actually they don’t know what’s right for you. You know more than you think. Your intuition is a better compass. I’ll explain how this has helped me grow my business.