Blog for Introverts and HSPs - Career, Self-employment, Balance

The Black Swan Model for Business - hustle-free

“Do I Have to Hustle to Be Successful in Business?” (There’s a calm way for business.)

You hear about side hustles or that you have to hustle to make it as an entrepreneur. It can be a turn off for introverts and HSPs. Hustle is NOT required. Here’s why the hustle idea is harmful, and what works better.
I explain my black swan logo as a symbol of a hustle-free better way.

Relaxed Courage Appeared Like Magic, Thanks to Being in Community.

While at a women’s circle retreat, I discovered things about the power of community – what a spark for my courage, clearer thinking, and Joy! Like the magic of clicking into gear. So good. I explain what happened, and how you can find your own empowering circle.

I missed the easier path while looking down at the ice.

I couldn’t see the easier path right next to me. (This is so common.)

Missing the easier path reminded me of how we keep using a stressful path in our career and business. The easier way is often right there.

Perfectionism Cure + Why Introverts and HSPs are more prone to perfectionism.

Perfectionism is not a permanent trait. We can break free. Some facts and stories here. Plus: why introverts and highly sensitive people (HSPs) are more prone to perfectionism. My own recovering perfectionist story.

How do I find energy for career exploration when I’m so exhausted by work/life already?

When work or life are already draining, it’s hard to find energy to work towards a career change such as considering self-employment. Here’s how real introverts and HSPs are making it work.

Great Resignation… and Then What Happened? (Inside Stories of their Great Relief)

Millions have quit their jobs without knowing what was next. Have they found happiness? Did they get stuck? I’ve gathered some stories here.

Career Confusion to Career Clarity (doodle)

New Year’s resolutions can block your career goals. 🤨

The problem with new year’s resolutions for your career (and life). Sometimes they actually get in the way, make you feel pushed, or hopeless. It ends up being draining, and your goals don’t pan out. I wrote up my thoughts about what what I find works better and gives you more energy.

Why it’s hard to find the right career direction for you. > How to make it easier.

Why it’s hard and confusing, like a tangled web. (It’s not you!) Here are 3 lists that help, including the 4 typical roadblocks for finding the right career, and the 4 ways people get around those roadblocks. I also address cost issues for getting help.

Gratitude 🙏 Grief 🍁 Joy – How They Can All Go Together. ∞

Gratitude and grief often come together, and it can lead to more joy when we let it all in. And that leads to an abundance of giving. Plus, how to find your way of sharing your gifts.

Famous Introvert Story: Rachel Carson, Ecologist, and How Her Introversion Saved the Day.

The “mother of the modern environmentalist movement,” Rachel Carson, was an introvert. I believe it was her introverted personality that made it possible for her to spark a movement. I find her story fascinating. I’m excited to share it with you.

How To Explore Careers That Seem Interesting

So you’ve got some career ideas but not ready to choose one. How can you find out more before choosing? Here are easy steps for how to explore careers. Your inner detective is good at this. It’s fun.

HSP Introvert Artist Business Story: Meet Emet Aron

Inside story of how an introvert and HSP is making it work as an artist and massage therapist combined. Making a living, by living their purpose in multiple ways.

Sara Barry - writing for a living and getting in nature too.

Introvert Success Story: Freelance Writer Business. Meet Sara Barry.

Inside story of how an introvert turned her love of writing into a successful business as a copywriter and content strategist for meaningful businesses.
I think you’ll find some good tips for your own journey, especially if you’re exploring self-employment and concerned about what it takes. (This is part of a series of stories.)

Pros and Cons of Starting a Business Now 🤔

Is it a good time to start a business or bad time? Here’s a list of pros and cons for solopreneurs. + Tips for how to decide in your own situation.

Introvert/HSP Business Owner Profile: Hannah – Herbalist, Farmer, Wellness Professional

Learn how this introvert and HSP turned her passion for the earth into a successful wellness business as an herbalist and apothecary. Interview with Hannah Jacobson-Hardy of Sweet Birch Herbals.

I think you’ll find some good tips for your own journey, especially if you’re exploring self-employment and concerned about what it takes.

(I love learning and sharing these stories! This is part of a series of stories.)

Careers for Writers/ People Who Love to Write or Edit 📖

Want to write or edit for a living? It is possible and it could be a great fit for introverts. Here are lots of career ideas for writers, as well as how to find writing jobs, freelance writing, and how to choose a good path for you.

In case of hard times… (from one HSP to another)

I sent this note to a fellow HSP friend having a rough time and decided to save it here for when you and I need it too. We need each other. #community

Mompreneur/ SOULpreneur Business Owner Success Story – Meet Jessika Rozki of Rozki Rides

How does a mom of 4 create a successful and meaningful business? Jessika’s story is an inspiration for mompreneurs. She combines passion, determination, and action to make it work.
(I love learning and sharing these stories! This is part of a series of stories.)

Can Introverts Be Entrepreneurs? I didn’t think so, until I did it anyway. {audio}

The extroverted entrepreneurial stereotype never felt like me, as an introverted woman. Here’s my look back on how I ended up self-employed anyway, and how it worked out despite my initial blocks. You can listen in on this conversation in this podcast. I no longer think there’s an entrepreneurial personality type, but there are certain things that do matter. Here’s my take.